I have had many experiences in my life with people who don’t understand what it’s like to live with a physical disability.  Some people assume that because I am non-speaking and sit in a wheelchair that I am not intelligent.  When I go to elementary schools to talk to students they see that a person like me who has multiple disabilities is not someone to fear or make fun of. 

For the past five years I have been a guest presenter at different New York elementary schools in the Dobbs Ferry, New Rochelle, Scarsdale and Mamaroneck school districts.   Many of these schools have programs which help students recognize and understand people who have all kinds of differences and disabilities. 

Before I make my presentation at elementary schools the students often have been introduced to the book “Out of my Mind” by Sharon M. Draper.  The book is written in the first person and tells the story of Melody Brooks, a fifth grade student who has cerebral palsy and uses an augmentative communication device to speak.  The book is recommended for ages 10 and up and for grades 5-8.

When I go to schools the students are very interested in meeting a real person whose life is similar to the character Melody.  While I am speaking I run a PowerPoint slide show that illustrates and helps the students understand my life.  After my presentation I do a Q & A where the kids  have a chance to ask questions and interact with me.  I even let them try using my communication device.  

I have learned from the many letters that the kids have sent to me and from what their teachers have expressed that the experience of having me come to present at their school is a comfortable, educational and enjoyable experience.  They understand that some people just have more challenges in their lives but in many ways are just like them.